The Supper Club Diaries

How to Come to An Event Ready to Find LOVE

The Supper Club

Happy belated Valentine’s Day, beloved guests! It’s our favorite week of the year, and we want to make it YOUR favorite week, too. We know that so many of our beloved members are single – and that’s why this week’s post is dedicated to them, and to finding love at any event. Though it is not our mission to set you up – we have proudly introduced dozens of happy couples here at Supper Club. And that’s no accident. Turns out, when it comes to encouraging AMORE, your hostesses are little cupids, hard at work for YOU.

Here are our top tips for coming to events ready to find The One:

1. Mind your energy

The biggest obstacle to love is not believing. This means a few things:

Defeatism: there’s no one out there, anyway

Defeatism: the person I want would not like me, anyway

Defeatism: it’s not “cool” to be here (at any event) looking for love

We say this respectfully - lose this attitude immediately, please. Instead, if you are single: we want you to do the following before coming to our events:

Believe that not only if YOUR dream date out there, but they are possibly coming to tonight’s party.

Look at yourself in the mirror before leaving your house and say: “Hey there, gorgeous!” – knowing there is absolutely no-one you cannot conquer with your perfect self

And then dress up, and show up.

Remember this key – the single number one factor in attraction is confidence. That’s what you need to muster, and maintain, all night long.

2. Dress to Impress

We may be starting to sound like a broken record here, but here’s the fundamental key to enjoying any event – dress for it. Dressing for it means that you are prepared. It means you are there as your best self. Bring it, baby. We want you dapper, we want you draped in jewels, we want to be so dazzled by your gorgeous turnout that you have us talking all night. Because so will the delightful soul you wish to seduce.

3. Flirt

At the event, make a conscious effort to flirt. Everyone has their unique style, but flirting with a light sexual connection creates chemistry. There are certain things you can do that will create chemistry right away – to get you to and beyond Date 1. Here are a few of our favorites:

Gently touch his hand while speaking.

Move her hair out of her face.

Pull out a chair for her.

Adjust his tie.

Laugh at all their jokes.

Smile.

Keep eye contact.

Ask lots of questions, but keep these light. “What do you do?” is a common and great question in NYC and LA, but “how’s your mental health history?” is not.

Important - don’t try to be a big wit. That is NOT what creates a bond. Just be YOU. Charming, elegant, wonderful YOU.

4. Your Hostess is Your Cupid

Never forget that we are here for you. We do like seating you next to the man or woman whom we believe you will fancy, but if you have your eye on someone else, just ask your hostess to introduce you. We promise not only to make the connection, but to talk you up, and to make sure that come dessert time, you’ll be enjoying delectable sweets side by side. The rest is up to you.

5. Follow Up

Fellas, listen up: you want her? You have to pursue her. If you have met someone fabulous at a Supper Club party, then please DO ask us for her number, email or office address, and then DO ask her out, send her flowers, or do something to keep the momentum going. In the game of love—he who persists, wins.

We bless you for finding the perfect love for you, your soulmate, and learning to bring that forth in our events toward that delicious goal. Let's keep the love flowing all year round!